The Japanese BDSM candles by Whipsmart are Designed to burn hotter than massage candles and drip hot wax over your lover to build suspense and awaken nerve endings with pleasurable pain. To enjoy the sensual feel of hot wax on the skin hold the lit candle approximately 18 inches away from your partner’s body and let it drip slowly. By the time the wax hits the skin it will have cooled down to a comfortable level but still have some titillating heat to it!